- Keep things exciting. If you are feeling a little bored to death with your sexual routine, then he is most likely bored as well. Change things up. Be the one to initiate sex, and then take charge of the show. Try some of the things he used to love when you were first dating or read a book and try something new.
- Never let him forget who you are. Don’t smother him or seem dependent, but he is your man. If he's at the job site late or out with the guys, you can text him a quick "HEY BABE," or "I miss you". Just don't ask him where he is or when he'll be coming home. You've still reminded him he has a woman at home who loves him and is thinking about him.
- Don't pester him. Some men live for their wives and girlfriends, and some men just tolerate them. Be the kind of woman your man lives for. It may just make him your well-trained puppy; doing everything he can to please you. Cook meals he loves, watch the basketball game with him, and give him space when he wants it to read the paper or watch the news. Don't forget to give him plenty of brief touches and cuddles so he never loses that connection to you.
Some of the reasons men cheat is that they have emotionally departed their loving relationship, or at least the sexual part of it. They are bored stiff with the monotonous sex. Let’s face it; you and he have had sex in the same room, with the same sexy outfits you bought 7 years ago. You get my drift; the honeymoon was over years ago. Suddenly a childhood friend has befriended him on Facebook and liked his picture. Hmm, she isn’t looking to bad herself. The excitement of something new makes him feel like a wanted man again. Perhaps he gets lost in the moment and goes along with it after all... “she’s just a friend.” He drinks a few beers, rekindles some memories, laughs a little but that shot of whiskey altered his mindset just a little too much and he screwed up big time. Men may also cheat when they find themselves in grief from emotional disorder that may have been brought on by a hostile disagreement with his wife or girlfriend. Men often deal with confusion through negative means like drinking, drugs, violent behavior and prohibited sex. They will resort to anything to make the hurt go away, and sex does a very good job of that. The key to keeping your man from cheating lies in anticipating these conditions and circumstances.